Educational Blogs from Our Mental Health Therapists

Learn about common challenges, including depression, anxiety, relationships,
trauma, and more, written by Maryland therapists!

Considering a Therapy Intensive? How to Decide Which Therapy Intensive Is Right for You

Therapy intensives are becoming increasingly popular, and for good reason. They offer a deep, focused approach to therapeutic growth that allows people to work through big emotions, life transitions, and unresolved trauma in a shorter period of time. But with so many different therapy intensives available, how do you know which one is the right fit for you?

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Why Are Therapy Intensives Becoming So Popular?

If you’ve been searching for therapy options in Maryland, you may have noticed something new.  More and more practices are offering therapy intensives. Whether it’s EMDR intensives, trauma-focused intensives, or Brainspotting intensives, these deep-dive therapy sessions are gaining traction fast. But why? What makes therapy intensives so popular, and more importantly, is a therapy intensive right for you?

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Top Reasons Why People Choose Private Pay Therapy in Baltimore

When it comes to therapy, many people conclude that using insurance is the way to go or that all mental health providers accept health insurance. But did you know that many individuals–right here in Baltimore and across Maryland—choose to invest in private pay therapy instead? While insurance can be a helpful tool for accessing mental health care, it also comes with limitations that don’t work for everyone.

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Online Counseling, Men's Issues, Resources Melissa Wesner Online Counseling, Men's Issues, Resources Melissa Wesner

The Practice of Stoicism and Its Impact on Men’s Mental Health

A topic that has come up in my personal life with male friends and in my work life with male clients is that of stoicism. This is a topic of genuine interest for me as a man who is a mental health professional as the practice of stoicism is problematic. This blog will outline what stoicism is, the messages it sends to men, and healthier ways of being for others.

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Resources, Anxiety, Online Counseling, Depression Melissa Wesner Resources, Anxiety, Online Counseling, Depression Melissa Wesner

Demystifying the Therapy Process

We’re talking with Sara Sacada-Lovio, LCPC, who is a mental health therapist at LifeSpring Counseling Services. She'll be talking with us about demystifying the therapy process, which can be a great topic for someone who's been considering therapy or someone who has strong beliefs about therapy, even if you've never tried it. So this will be an opportunity to check some of the information that you already have about therapy.

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What To Expect When You Call For Therapy

When you call our office, Sarah is the first person that you're going to talk to. If you send us an email, she is the person who's going to answer you. We also want to say that Sarah is someone who gets tons of compliments! We hear a lot of feedback from clients who are just so impressed with how she takes care of them and how she makes them feel comfortable when they call our office.

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Online Counseling, Resources, Burnout Melissa Wesner Online Counseling, Resources, Burnout Melissa Wesner

Therapy for Therapists in Maryland: Navigating Tough Times with Support

While some therapists see participating in therapy as a normal and necessary thing to do when working in this field, others may experience shame over needing to seek help themselves. That shame might come from a place of asking, “How am I going to help my clients if I can’t help myself? I should have it together!” However, one thing I have come to learn is EVERYONE needs to check in with their mental health, therapists included.

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Business Owners, Resources, Online Counseling Melissa Wesner Business Owners, Resources, Online Counseling Melissa Wesner

Why Shopping Local Matters, Even When Choosing Your Mental Health Provider

As the holiday season approaches, the idea of shopping locally and supporting small businesses takes center stage. From finding unique gifts to dining at neighborhood restaurants, buying local helps keep your community thriving. But have you ever considered the importance of "shopping local" when it comes to your healthcare choices?

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Why You Should Take a Relationship Assessment Before Getting Married

Why not just wing it?

Why not just talk about marriage with your fiance one day over a cup of coffee and call it a day?

We already know everything we need to know about each other.

We’ve been living together for a while, so we’re basically married and there’s nothing new to learn.

Anything sound familiar? While there can certainly be some truth behind those statements, I would assume that - if you’re engaged to be married - there’s a high likelihood that it’s because you value your relationship with your partner and you want it to last a lifetime. If this is true for you, I MUST recommend an assessment (specifically the Prepare/Enrich assessment) as a part of your journey to marriage. 

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4 Reasons to Invest in Premarital Counseling

If you’re reading this, I hope it’s fair to assume you and your other half are engaged (or about to be)! If you haven’t found out by now, the world of engagement can be… a lot. Maybe you’re getting 20 questions from family members, hearing unsolicited opinions, and probably already feeling behind on the planning process. I’ve seen firsthand the impact wedding planning can have on a relationship. It’s very easy for couples to lose sight of the marriage that awaits them on the other side of the wedding. That’s where premarital counseling comes in. 

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Depression, Anxiety, Motivation, Online Counseling Melissa Wesner Depression, Anxiety, Motivation, Online Counseling Melissa Wesner

Things Our Maryland Therapists Want You to Know If You’ve Been Avoiding Starting Therapy

Have you been dreading the idea of starting therapy? Perhaps you’ve been dragging your feet, even though you know that it’s a good idea. Or perhaps you don’t really want to do therapy, but everyone around you is encouraging you to go.  If that’s the case, here are some things that our Maryland therapists want you to know!

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Not My Therapist’s Keeper: A Guide for Therapists to Enjoy Therapy as the Client

If you think about it, your doctor probably has a doctor and that doctor probably also has a doctor. Your teacher had a teacher who was taught by another teacher. Your mailman has a mailman who has a mailman and your dentist has a dentist…who has a dentist!

So, why is it harder for therapists to see or talk about their own therapists?

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Online Counseling, Resources Melissa Wesner Online Counseling, Resources Melissa Wesner

Meet Your Match at LifeSpring PART 2: Find a Therapist Who’s a Good Fit for You!

You’ve heard of speed dating, but have you ever considered how nice it would be if you could speed interview a bunch of therapists at the same time, so you could quickly decide who’s the best fit for you? You can always schedule consultation calls with various therapists to ask them some questions and see which person feels like the best fit.

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Online Counseling, Resources Melissa Wesner Online Counseling, Resources Melissa Wesner

Meet Your Match at LifeSpring: A Chance to Find a Therapist Who’s a Good Fit for You!

You’ve heard of speed dating, but have you ever considered how nice it would be if you could speed interview a bunch of therapists at the same time, so you could quickly decide who’s the best fit for you? You can always schedule consultation calls with various therapists to ask them some questions and see which person feels like the best fit.

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Brainspotting, Online Counseling, Resources Melissa Wesner Brainspotting, Online Counseling, Resources Melissa Wesner

What Is Brainspotting? Answers to this Very Popular Question and More in this Video!

Our Greater Baltimore counseling practice loves Brainspotting, and there’s one big question that we hear all the time!  “What is Brainspotting?”  Most people have never heard of it, but they’ve seen it on our website!  If you’re curious to learn more, I encourage you to check out this informative podcast interview with LifeSpring Founder, Melissa Wesner, LCPC. Melissa is a Certified Brainspotter and Brainspotting Consultant who loves sharing about Brainspotting. 

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Common Misperceptions about Online Counseling Services Thanks to Commercials From Big Tech Companies Who Have Entered the Mental Health Space

When mental health became the next hot new topic, big tech companies suddenly took an interest. They entered into the mental health space, opened up their own mental health platforms, and gave the public plenty of misleading advertisements. This is what happens when mental health services are advertised by people who have received no formal training in providing therapy. These commercials have misinformed the public, leaving actual therapists to set the record straight. So, here are 3 misperceptions about online counseling created and reinforced by the commercials you’ve been seeing and our attempt to correct them! 

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Brainspotting, Online Counseling, Resources Melissa Wesner Brainspotting, Online Counseling, Resources Melissa Wesner

Frequently Asked Questions About Brainspotting Intensives

In the therapy world, there are Intensives for EMDR, couples work, and other counseling modalities. Intensives involve completing hours of therapy in just a few days. Intensives are great for people who are not interested in (or able to) participate in weekly therapy. In these cases, people are looking to do extensive amounts of work in a short period of time.  Other people seek Intensives in response to a recent life event that they want to work through as quickly as possible. Learn more about Brainspotting Intensives and what you can expect.

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