Educational Blogs from Our Mental Health Therapists

Learn about common challenges, including depression, anxiety, relationships,
trauma, and more, written by Maryland therapists!

Finding the Right Therapist in Maryland: Mental Health Lessons from “Good Will Hunting”

Therapy is not an easy process. As much as we want to quickly find help or check the therapy box from our list, mental health is not something that is simply cured overnight. The 1997 film Good Will Hunting looks at this struggle to rush therapy and the importance of trusting the process.

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Resources, Anxiety, Mindfulness Melissa Wesner Resources, Anxiety, Mindfulness Melissa Wesner

Setting Realistic Goals In the New Year: Therapist-Informed Tips for Maryland Adults

3…2…1… HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Or… is it?

For many people, a new year is a time of excitement and joy, reflecting on the previous year and getting ready for a new one. But for others, a new year can be riddled with stress and the pressure of returning to work, trying to do better, and starting anew. It can be overwhelming to see everyone around you working toward their own goals and self-improvement, and feeling the pressure to do so yourself.

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Practicing Acceptance During the Holidays: Therapeutic Support for Maryland Adults

The holidays can be full of contradictions: Time off leaves us exhausted, fun and social gatherings feel lonely or isolating, and small talk turns into big debates with politics, religion, or world affairs. If we acknowledge that contradictions do and will abound whether we want them to or not - like heaping portions or inflatable lawn decorations - we can start to practice acceptance to shrink the discomfort of contradictory environments.

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Being Present During the Holidays: Mindfulness Tips from a Baltimore Counseling Practice

Have you ever walked away from the holidays feeling empty? Have you forgotten about your holiday memories immediately after returning to work? Or have you looked around the table and been frustrated at how separated everyone seemed? If you answered yes to any of the questions above, you might be struggling to be present during the holidays.

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Your Guide to Holiday Stress Relief: Practical Coping Strategies for a Calmer Season

The holiday season is such a joyous time of the year, but it can also bring a lot of stress, and you aren’t alone in this. The American Psychological Association reported that about 9 out of 10 Americans feel stressed during the holidays because of finances, missing loved ones, and family conflict. When we are stressed out, it is important that we have healthy coping strategies ready in our back pocket. Here are seven way to make this season less stressful and more joyous.

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If Our Maryland Therapists Could Give Their Younger Selves Advice…

As therapists, it is easy to focus on helping others navigate and manage stress, but what would we tell our younger selves if we had the chance? Many of us do not always have the correct tools, awareness, or language we have now to manage our mental health. We asked our team of Maryland-based clinicians to reflect on the lessons they have learned over the years and the advice they would give their younger selves about managing stress, and how they recognize when it is time to reach out for support.

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How “The Big Sick” Shows Us the Different Ways We Cope with Anxiety

Everyone struggles with the rollercoaster of life. Whether it be finding a job, coping with medical problems, or trying to understand a complex relationship, life can come with so many ups and downs that it feels almost impossible to cope with them. The 2017 movie The Big Sick tackles these different themes by looking at the way anxiety trickles through each one.

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Resources, Grief and Loss, Anxiety, Boundary Setting Melissa Wesner Resources, Grief and Loss, Anxiety, Boundary Setting Melissa Wesner

Doing More than Surviving “Happy” Holidays in Maryland

The holidays can be a time of renewed connection with family and friends, traditions celebrated, good food shared, and a new year begun. However, the holidays can also leave us more than a little drained and sometimes frazzled. When the string lights turn on, those of us that are close to loss of a loved one, divorce, or career upset might feel daunted or even overwhelmed. “Have a happy holiday!” starts to feel like a demand rather than well-wishing.

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Coping with Holiday Loneliness and Grief: Reflection Questions Inspired by The Holdovers — Baltimore Counseling Insights

The holidays can be an exciting and festive time for many to reconnect with their loved ones and enjoy a special time of year. However, for some, the holidays are a reminder of all of the loss they have experienced. Whether that be the death of a loved one, feeling left behind, or simply alone, the holidays can make our loss feel amplified. The 2023 film The Holdovers tackles this idea of loss during the holiday season by looking at a boarding school in the 1970s during their winter break.

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Finding Your Way: Navigating the First Holiday Season After Divorce

After a divorce, separation, or break-up, the holiday season can be emotionally challenging. Looking ahead might fill us with anxiety, but preparing in advance can mitigate feelings of loneliness or sadness and allow us to recenter ourselves amidst the un-grounded-ness associated with shifting shared traditions. What follows are some strategies to help navigate the holidays with grace and health.

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Children & Teens, Anxiety, Parenting Melissa Wesner Children & Teens, Anxiety, Parenting Melissa Wesner

Finding Belonging and Purpose: How The Wild Robot Talks About Mental Health For Both Kids and Adults – A Baltimore Counseling Intern’s Reflections

One of my favorite films of the last few years is the 2024 animated movie The Wild Robot. The wonderful thing about this movie is that both children and caregivers can learn a lot about belonging, resilience, and believing in oneself through the story. Below are some reflections on how the film tackles these themes and the interesting way that we can learn from a robot what it is like to be human.

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How Lilo & Stitch Helps Us Understand Grief, Change, and Belonging — A Baltimore Counseling Intern’s Take

One of my favorite films of all-time is the 2002 animated classic Lilo & Stitch. I loved this movie as a kid and the more I rewatch it, the more I realize just how much the stories of both Lilo and Stitch are meaningful to my life and the lives of so many others. Throughout the course of the film, you get to follow their journey adjusting to their new lives, battling grief, and finding their place in the world. In this blog, I’ll be sharing some reflections from the movie and how the characters humanize mental health struggles, especially for kids.

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Coping with Grief on Holidays and Anniversaries: Baltimore Counseling Support

Navigating significant dates or milestones after a loss can bring up emotional and physical responses we might not have experienced before. After a loss, dates that used to bring joy and celebration now stir up feelings of sadness and dread. In the following blog, I’ll share some creative strategies that can help you remember your loved one and ease anxiety and grief the next time a day on the calendar starts to sneak up on you.

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Depression, Grief and Loss, Boundary Setting Melissa Wesner Depression, Grief and Loss, Boundary Setting Melissa Wesner

Navigating Change and Loneliness: A Baltimore Counseling Intern’s Reflections on The Banshees of Inisherin

Life always seems to pull us straight out of our comfort zone, plucking away the people and routines we feel are comfortable with. Whenever these transitions happen, the adjustment to a “new” life can be jarring. The 2022 film The Banshees of Inisherin takes a stark look at how three different men navigate difficult transitions in their lives.

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Feeling Seen: A Maryland Counseling Intern’s Reflections on Inside Out 2’s Depiction of Anxiety

In 2024, Pixar Animation Studios released a sequel to their 2015 hit film, Inside Out, which tackled themes of childhood emotions. Inside Out 2 expands on this world within a young girl’s head. Notably, Anxiety was included as one of the newly featured emotions, sparking many discussions about mental health among moviegoers. Whether you are someone who struggles with anxiety on a daily basis, knows someone who constantly faces anxiety, or are curious about how to manage those bouts of anxiety we all face, Inside Out 2 provides a strong and beautiful characterization of anxiety.

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Movies and Mental Health: Learning About Ourselves Through Watching Stories

Struggling with your mental health can feel isolating. It can be hard to find any form of connection in a world that values perfection and idealism. However, thousands of people deal with mental health struggles every day and tell their stories to connect with those in a similar place. One medium that has provided a number of mental health stories is film. This blog will introduce a series of upcoming blogs that will be looking at different films that portray mental health, covering various concerns and analyzing the quality of their depiction.

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Boundary Setting, Anxiety, Depression Melissa Wesner Boundary Setting, Anxiety, Depression Melissa Wesner

What to Do If You See Your Therapist Outside of Session

Hopefully, you like your therapist. They know so much about you -- your likes and dislikes, family drama, friend gossip, problems in the sack, money woes, and more. They might be the only person who knows all of your problems. What happens if you see them out in public? What do you do if you see their personal social media page? In Baltimore, this is bound to happen because it is Smalltimore. Have no fear! The answer is here.

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Resources, Online Counseling, Anxiety Melissa Wesner Resources, Online Counseling, Anxiety Melissa Wesner

Finding an Anxiety Therapist in Baltimore: What to Look For!

Finding a therapist can be tricky! There are different credentials, age ranges, locations, specialities, and training that therapists list on their profiles. Even being a therapist, it is often difficult sometimes to differentiate profiles! Anxiety can range from annoying to debilitating to one’s life, this level of uncertainty in not knowing who is the right fit or match can add another level to the therapist search. Here are some things I would consider when looking for a therapist!

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Thinking about Ketamine? Here’s How to Know if You Are Eligible for Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy

Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is a therapeutic approach that utilizes the legal, controlled use of ketamine in a safe, supportive setting to support emotional healing. While this is a powerful healing modality, it may not be a fit for everyone!

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🎧 Starting Therapy: Your Podcast Guide to Beginning Counseling

If you’re thinking of starting therapy for the first time, you might know how to get started or what to expect.  At LifeSpring Counseling Services, we understand these concerns and have created the Starting Therapy podcast series to provide clarity and support. While we have lots of content on our website, we also wanted to make our content available in audio form.  Here’s a summary of this private, mini podcast series and the content you can expect to find.

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