Educational Blogs from Our Mental Health Therapists

Learn about common challenges, including depression, anxiety, relationships,
trauma, and more, written by Maryland therapists!

The Impact of Night Shifts on Nurses' Mental Health: How to Stay Balanced

How Do Night Shifts Affect a Nurse's Mental and Physical Health?Our bodies are like finely tuned machines, and they crave routine. Enter night shifts – the ultimate schedule disrupter. They throw a wrench into our natural circadian rhythm, that internal clock that governs our sleep-wake cycles. Think of it like constantly resetting your alarm – confusing, right?  This disruption has a domino effect on your overall health, leading to a cascade of issues.

Here at LifeSpring Counseling, we believe therapy can play a powerful role in heling nurses find balance and peace in their lives.

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Fostering Emotional Intelligence: The Role of Therapy in Developing EQ

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to achieve your goals and build strong relationships. While some people seem to be naturally gifted with high EQ, the good news is, EQ can be learned and developed.

Here at LifeSpring Counseling, we believe therapy can play a powerful role in fostering emotional intelligence.

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Navigating Career Transitions: How Therapy Can Provide Support

The world of work is constantly evolving, and with it comes the reality of career changes. Whether it's a planned shift, an unexpected layoff, or the pursuit of a long-held dream, career transitions can be emotionally charged.

Here at LifeSpring Counseling, we understand the challenges that come with changing careers, and we want to assure you that therapy can be a valuable source of support.

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Therapy's Role in Overcoming Life's Unexpected Obstacles

Life throws curveballs. Sometimes, it feels like these curveballs come one after another, leaving us feeling lost, overwhelmed, and unsure how to move forward. Whether you're facing a job loss, a health scare, a relationship breakup, or any other major life challenge, you're not alone.

While these challenges can be incredibly difficult, they also present opportunities for growth and self-discovery. Therapy can be a powerful tool in helping you not just survive these challenges, but to truly thrive in the aftermath.

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Depression, Trauma and PTSD Melissa Wesner Depression, Trauma and PTSD Melissa Wesner

Unmasked: How Looking Into Pain Can Help You Discover a Value in Disguise

We can always tell something important has appeared when something bothers us. When something bothers us, it usually indicates that a value is being brought up, challenged, or tampered with. That is because as much as values help us find joy and meaning, values can also help us find pain and difficulty. If something weren’t a value, we wouldn’t care. So, the fact that you care is a good thing. It may not feel great now, but in one way or another, it will pay off differently.

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Depression, Resources, Anxiety Melissa Wesner Depression, Resources, Anxiety Melissa Wesner

Therapists’ Top Tips for Managing Depression & Anxiety

Depression and anxiety often go hand in hand. They’re like two good friends who like to hang out!  Depression and anxiety show up so frequently, that our therapists are regularly providing support and coping strategies to people who are looking to manage their symptoms.  We’ve asked 4 of our therapists to share some of their favorite strategies for managing depression and anxiety.  See what they had to say.

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Mindfulness for Beginners: A Therapist's Guide to Getting Started

Feeling overwhelmed by the constant busyness of life? You're not alone! In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in our thoughts and anxieties, losing touch with the present moment. But there's a simple practice that can help you cultivate peace and focus: mindfulness.

Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment without judgment. It's about becoming aware of your thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations without getting swept away by them. Here at LifeSpring Counseling, we see firsthand how mindfulness can benefit our clients.

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Depression, Highly-Sensitive Person Melissa Wesner Depression, Highly-Sensitive Person Melissa Wesner

Like an Onion: Peeling Back the Layers of Emotional Discomfort

How many times have you heard one of the following?

“Stop crying.”

“Stop thinking about it.”

“Don’t worry about it.”

“Don’t get so mad.”

“Don’t let it get you down!”

If you related to any of those, chances are, you also felt some kind of internal response to them. Maybe it was a twinge of anger or a flash of a memory from your childhood. Or maybe it is frustrating at the constant message that emotion or thought can be switched on and off on command. 

Crying is normal. Having thoughts, worrying, anger, and sadness are normal! So, if that is the case, why are we so accustomed to telling one another to stop or not think or feel a certain way? 

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Breaking the Cycle: Understanding and Managing Generational Trauma

Have you ever felt like you're carrying burdens that don't quite belong to you? You might be experiencing the effects of generational trauma. It's the emotional or psychological stress that can be passed down through families, sometimes for generations. It can be a heavy weight to bear, but the good news is, you don't have to carry it alone. Here at LifeSpring Counseling, we understand the complexities of generational trauma. We want to assure you that it's absolutely normal to feel its effects, and there are healthy ways to manage them.

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Debunking Myths: What Therapy Is and Isn't

Therapy. The word itself can conjure up images from movies – lying on a couch, spilling your deepest secrets to a stranger. But the reality of therapy is far less dramatic and much more beneficial.

Here at LifeSpring Counseling, we want to debunk some common myths about therapy and show you what it truly is:

Myth #1: Therapy is only for people with severe mental illness.

Fact: Therapy can benefit anyone struggling with emotional or behavioral challenges. Feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, or relationship issues? Therapy can equip you with tools to manage those difficulties.

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Mental Health Stigma in the South Asian Community: A South Asian Therapist’s Personal Experience & Tips on How to Talk to Your Parents About Mental Health

Growing up, it was very difficult for me to speak to my parents about mental health. Everytime, they saw me sad, upset or depressed. They would default to “Oh you will be fine.  Let's go out for dinner. It will make you feel better.” But in reality I wasn't really “ok.” As a therapist, it has been my job to help them understand the importance of mental health. Here, I will talk about 3 tips on how you can speak with your South Asian parents about mental health. 

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Resources, Business Owners, Depression, COVID-19 Melissa Wesner Resources, Business Owners, Depression, COVID-19 Melissa Wesner

The Loneliness Epidemic: How Entrepreneurs Can Prioritize Relationships and Wellbeing

Much attention has been given to the health implications of loneliness over the past few years. We can understand how easy it would be for solopreneurs who work alone and/or in isolation to feel lonely and disconnected. On top of that, the pandemic has forced remote-capable entrepreneurs to work from home which only further contributed to increasingly high reports of loneliness and disconnection. All hope isn’t lost, however, there are plenty of ways that entrepreneurs can seek community and connection to find support and relationships that enhance well-being.

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Resources, Business Owners, Depression, COVID-19 Melissa Wesner Resources, Business Owners, Depression, COVID-19 Melissa Wesner

Social Wellness for Solopreneurs: Confronting Loneliness in Entrepreneurial Ventures

At the start of the pandemic, many remote capable entrepreneurs were forced to begin working from home.  This was great for physical health and safety, but not so great for social and emotional well-being.  During the pandemic, many entrepreneurs (including therapists in private practice) reported increasing feelings of isolation and disconnection.

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Burnout, Resources, Anxiety, Business Owners, Depression Melissa Wesner Burnout, Resources, Anxiety, Business Owners, Depression Melissa Wesner

Mental Health Resources for Entrepreneurs

Entrepreneurs are a unique group, and they face distinct work and lifestyle challenges as a result of their work. While there are a wide-range of mental health resources available to the community at large, it can be more challenging to find resources and services designed specifically for entrepreneurs.  We hope you’ll be able to use this list to identify resources that will be helpful to you. 

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Brainspotting, Depression, Online Counseling Melissa Wesner Brainspotting, Depression, Online Counseling Melissa Wesner

Finding Relief Through The Power of Brainspotting: Treating Depression

Depression is a common mental health condition that affects millions of people around the world. It can cause feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of energy and motivation, making it difficult to enjoy life and perform daily activities. While there are many different treatments available for depression, including medication and talk therapy, one newer approach is Brainspotting.

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Anxiety, Depression, Resources Melissa Wesner Anxiety, Depression, Resources Melissa Wesner

How Doctors’ Offices Can Prioritize Patients’ Mental Health and Wellness

In today's world, mental health has become a growing concern and more people are seeking help to manage their mental health issues. Doctors' offices can play a significant role in addressing the mental health needs of their patients by providing support and resources. Here are some ways that doctors' offices can support their patients' mental health.

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Anxiety, Depression, Parenting, Resources Melissa Wesner Anxiety, Depression, Parenting, Resources Melissa Wesner

Post-Weaning Depression and Its Effects on a New Mom's Mental Health

Shortly after I started weaning my toddler, sadness engulfed me. I felt like melted ice cream, honestly. This led me down a rabbit hole of reading. I am sure that you are joining me in my surprise that as a therapist, a former educator, and a mother who reads every parenting article I can get my hands on, I had never heard of post-weaning depression. Well, I think that the answer is two-fold. From what I can gather, there is limited research on post-weaning depression. This blog is centered on raising awareness on post-weaning depression, along with an encouragement for greater societal attention and research.

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Resources, Biases, Oppression, Depression, Recovery Melissa Wesner Resources, Biases, Oppression, Depression, Recovery Melissa Wesner

Important Mental Health Awareness Dates to Add to Your Calendar

Every year, several organizations and programs dedicate time to bring awareness to certain topics, including mental health, substance use, stress management, and more. Over the course of the year, each organization and/or program brings awareness, reduces stigma, offers a variety of shareable resources, and hosts helpful events locally and nationally. If you’re looking to learn more about a particular topic, share helpful resources, and partake in local opportunities, be sure to mark your calendars with these important dates!

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