Educational Blogs from Our Mental Health Therapists

Learn about common challenges, including depression, anxiety, relationships,
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College Students, Anxiety, Depression Melissa Wesner College Students, Anxiety, Depression Melissa Wesner

Managing Your Mental Health and Taking Care of Yourself as a College Student

Taking care of yourself and your mental health is always important, but it is extra important while in college. Making sure that your mental health is stable is beneficial to you while in college because it will help you better balance all of your responsibilities. Conversely, if you are struggling with your mental health, it can contribute to issues such as reducing productivity, focus, and overall performance in school. Here are some ways that you can try to take care of your mental health while pursuing your degree.

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College Students, Burnout, Anxiety Melissa Wesner College Students, Burnout, Anxiety Melissa Wesner

Common College Stressors and How Mental Health Therapy Can Help Manage Your Anxiety

While it’s not uncommon to hear people talk about college as the best years of their lives, the reality is that college can be an incredibly stressful time for young adults. Because of the many positive things we hear about others’ college experiences, college students may experience surprise at the actual number of stressors involved in college life. Here, you’ll find a list of common college stressors faced by students and ways that mental health therapy can help.

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Anxiety, COVID-19, Trauma and PTSD Melissa Wesner Anxiety, COVID-19, Trauma and PTSD Melissa Wesner

Re-Entry Anxiety. The Struggle is Real!

With advancements in medicine, vaccines for COVID-19 are now available and have been distributed to more than 87.6 million Americans. This means more people are venturing out and enjoying the people, places, and things they have missed out on for the past year. But for some, the idea of leaving the comfort and safety of home is stressful. The idea of moving around in the world in the midst of an unseen virus can be daunting and debilitating.

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Faith-Based, Anxiety Melissa Wesner Faith-Based, Anxiety Melissa Wesner

How to Cope with Worry and Anxiety as a Christian

Dealing with anxiety can be tricky. When anxiety starts taking over our lives, we don’t always know where to begin. Figuring out how to cope with anxious or fearful thoughts or feelings may simply involve gaining insight. If you are a practicing Christian, you may have noticed just how many times anxiety is addressed in the Bible. The Bible is full of rich wisdom to hold onto, that can help us address anxiety and pursue peace from a spiritual angle. Please feel encouraged to read along with some of these passages from Scripture, and take as much time as you need to pause and think about what the author is trying to communicate about anxiety, worry, and peace.

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Quotes to Help You Keep Your Anxiety in Check

While there are a number of really great coping strategies that can help us manage our anxiety and worry, sometimes a quote sticks with us, making it even easier to remember key concepts. If you deal with anxiety, you just might relate to some of the quotes in this blog. Pick the one that resonates with you, and keep it handy when you need a gentle reminder.

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Concrete Steps for Managing Your Worry

One of the most common (and annoying) symptoms of anxiety is worry. The things you worry about may vary, depending on the specific type of anxiety you personally experience. Regardless of whether you deal with the everyday anxiety that everyone experiences, generalized anxiety, social anxiety, panic attacks, or a specific phobia, you can find strategies in this blog to help. As with all things, “take what you need, and leave the rest.”

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Nine Strategies to Support You Through Election Anxiety

Record numbers of voters came out to vote this election cycle from both sides of the aisle. Tension and anxiety is running high as the continuity of people's values and beliefs are coming into play. If this cycle proves to be anything like the election of 2000, we may be in for the long haul as recounts and court decisions are made before deciding on the outcome of our next presidential election. In the meantime, millions of people are left with a feeling of anxiety and fear. Some of the anxiety is what we call “anticipatory anxiety,” meaning that we worry about what may happen or play out as things progress. The problem is that there is no way to know what will result, and the best we can do is to keep ourselves emotionally healthy during the process.

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How to Sleep Better with These Easy Tips

You’ve heard the familiar question, “Did you get up on the wrong side of the bed?” Most everyone has experienced what it’s like to not have had a good night's sleep.  Unfortunately, not getting enough sleep can be more challenging for some than others.  This lack of sleep can result in fatigue, irritability, difficulty concentrating, and even headaches. On top of that, lack of sleep can result in mood lability. After a serious lack of sleep, have you ever felt the urge to cry, even though the topic at hand is not one that would typically make you cry?  Getting the sleep we need is crucial for our physical and mental health. 

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3 Simple Strategies for Dealing with Racing Thoughts that Keep You Up at Night

We live in a fast-paced world and lead very busy lives.  For many of us, when our head hits the pillow, it’s the first time that our brain has had time to breathe all day.  At this moment, all of the thoughts come rushing forward, the thoughts that we haven’t had the opportunity to tend to all day long. And then...we try to sleep and find that we just can’t because there are so many thoughts running through our mind. Here are 3 simple strategies that you can try to address racing thoughts and fall asleep easier. 

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疫情下如何检测自己是否抑郁和焦虑: 5种缓解负面情绪的方法 / Depression and Anxiety During the Pandemic: 5 Ways to Cope

作为一名身处海外的华人的心理咨询师,我能理解遇到一场突如其来的疫情时,我们想的是家,亲人,祖国,或者正在着急寻找一个安全的避难所。可是我们如今留在美国,为了读书,工作或者安居,可能很难突然放弃一切,放下当下所有,不顾一切的离开。 那么异国他乡的你是不是在这个时候会感觉更加的孤单,难过,和无助?感受不到亲人和家给你带来的温暖和依靠。面对远离了知己好友在身边玩耍和嬉闹的日子。以及工作上的解雇,无薪休假的选择,和没有了薪资的保障。而让你变得更加着急,忧郁,和无奈?那么我们可以先看看自己是否已存在患有抑郁症或者焦虑症的可能性。但是在自我检测的时候,不需要紧张,认识问题是解决问题的第一步。也不用马上对号入座,立马断定自己就是重度抑郁症,或者是严重焦虑症患者,真正需要诊断的话,还需要考虑很多其他因素。

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